Just because God knows something does not mean He ordained it that it should be so. We complain, why would God do thus-n-such to me. Or, if He knew this was going to happen, He could have stopped it but He won’t. Or my favorite, If God loves us so much, why would He treat us this way?
i’ve heard those wounded, disappointed statements often, so i’m not making this up. For example:
A man and a woman own a car which needs approximately $600 of work done to it. Oh it runs, but it’s getting worse by the week. They don’t have $600 and they are just barely getting by every month. They can’t afford not one more penny out of their budget. They are in such a spot and have no clue what to do. They have prayed and asked God what to do, they are consistent tithers according to church law. They are good people in the eyes of the world, just in a difficult season for the time being.
One Sunday afternoon after church, the man and woman decide to go for a ride. They rode up town, they rode down town, they rode all over the place and happen to pass a large car dealership. Suddenly, there sprung into their minds the bright idea to stop and dream a little, because dreams were God’s idea and there was nothing wrong with dreaming some. In fact, playing the “what if” game in the car lot seemed like a relief from the stormy season they were presently in.
While they were looking at the cars, a salesman came out and struck up a conversation. He asked them, if they could, which car would they like to have, if they could? They assured him it wouldn’t matter which car because they couldn’t afford to fix the one they had, much less get a new one. The sales man laughed softly saying he understood what that was like. They liked him, he was a very friendly fellow with those “you-can-trust-me blue eyes”. The salesman told them the dealership was having a special that weekend and told them to just dream a little and “let’s just run the numbers, just for fun and see what happens.” So, “just for fun”, the fellow and his wife agreed to step into the sales office.
The salesman showed them how much they’d get for their old car and how much their monthly payments would be. With a warm tone in his voice, he told them if they got that car they wanted, especially now that the dealer was having a special that weekend, they would not have to fix their old one. They could drive around in style in the new one, then he asked them, “Can’t you just see it?” They could envision themselves in that nice car, no cares, driving around smiling, and all things would be well. He asked again, “If i can can get my manager to approve the monthly payments, would you be willing to take your dreaming seriously, because, afterall, it is the deal of a life time?”
While the salesman was gone, the man and woman prayed earnestly, “If this is you Lord, we pray that those numbers would be approved, and by that we’ll know it is You who have arranged this entire miraculous event.” What they failed to realize is that a bankrupt felon could get credit in their state, and OF COURSE the salesman was going to come back, smiling, saying excitedly, “He said it’s a go!” The salesman did exactly that, he even joined them in praising God for the miracle.
They signed the papers, left their old car behind, and drove away in a new car, thinking, “It must be God! It must be God!” Singing, and being joyful at the miracle of the Lord.
Two months later, as they began to realize they were going bankrupt and they were going to lose the car because they couldn’t make the car payments, and lose everything else in the process, they had become angry and bitter, and in a fit of frustration they cried out, sobbing, “How could you do this to us God?? Why would you treat us this way? Don’t you love us?!?”
How is it that when things are well with us, we are so confident that God loves us beyond our wildest dreams, but as soon as things become a struggle and we began to sweat, and get weary, suddenly we wonder where God is and if He loves us anymore? Did He suddenly change and become someone unsteady and unreliable, or was that us?
Did the Lord do this to them? Who is responsible for the circumstances? What do you think they could have done and should do in light of their circumstances?
Did God really do this to them? No. Is the results of their actions really the active judgment of God against them or is it the passive results of poor choosing and they did it to themselves? Be honest.
If you were determined to marry the wrong person, did God do that to you? No. And even though you may be determined to marry the wrong person, the Lord will not abandon you. He’ll go with you through all your trouble, and will not leave you to your misery. Just because He knows we’re going to crash doesn’t mean He determined it should be so. i say, God’s knowing is not His ordination that it should be so. God is not cruel, ever. Again, just because He knew you were going to crash does not mean He said, “Make it so.”
The Lord is good, and all the time God is good. Not just does good things, not just knows good information, He is more than simply pleasant and reassuring, but He is the very personification of Goodness. He is perfectly good because He is perfect in every way and does not change to anything other than good as if He were like clouds in the sky, always changing shape. He is perfectly consistent, perfectly love, perfectly kind, perfectly generous, and perfectly good, all the time and does not fade.
Let us consider carefully, being honest, accountable and transparent about ourselves and our lives. His heart towards us is love in all aspects of our lives. Let us not let allow ourselves to slid backwards into blaming God, the very person, the only person in all eternity who loves us so much He gave His life for us.
What do you think?